Monday, February 25, 2013

The Year of the Snake


The last couple of weeks at work we did a small social media campaign promoting seafood during the Chinese New Year -- which is a huge holiday for the Chinese, and it's now officially the Year of the Snake.

We have an intern with us for the semester who is from China, and she wrote me a brief report about our outreach efforts and what it means to the Chinese and it suddenly dawned on me... That's my sign! My zodiac is the snake, betchesss!! ;)

So I went to Xin's office totally excited and told her it's my year! (This shiii only happens once every 12 years) and she reacted with complete... skepticism which made me so confused. I was like "What?! Isn't that good? It's my year!" And she told me that good things can happen yes, but it's also a very explosive year for me and bad things are more likely to happen. WTFCome again?!

I asked her what I should do about it and she told me I need to wear red to ward off bad spirits, so I was like, "Oh, okay, so during the Chinese New Year?" and she responded, "No, all year!" Ummmm, Xin, I have 2 red shirts (really not my color) so this is going to be a problem.

I didn't think too far into it, even though I can get weirdly superstitious about certain things, until my boss told me a story. He gets his hair done by an older Chinese woman, Mrs. Choo, and she asked him how old his mom was because she knew they were close to the same age. He told her turning 72 this year and she said "oh my gosh... sign of the snake, she must be careful!" She knew because it's always your sign in intervals of twelve. So let's recap here: Two unrelated Chinese women have essentially "warned" of the dangers of this year for people with the Snake as their zodiac animal.

So next, I read an article in the Wash Post about, you guessed it, the Year of the Snake. It says the Chinese see snakes as an object of fright (umm who doesn't?) and they're "overwhelmingly repulsed" by them. So at first I thought the Chinese act this way when it's anyone's "sign year," but then realized it's specifically the Year of the Snake that makes them so nervous!

The Wash Post says, "The Year of the Ox is connected with being productive and successful, as the animal represents hard work or simply a bull market. The Dog is loyalty, the Monkey is smart, and the Rooster crows. Even the year of the Pig wouldn't be a problem, as the mud-rolling creature symbolizes good fortune in traditional Chinese culture. This year, however, the Chinese lunar calendar has tossed up a major challenge: the Year of the Snake. Chinese idioms, phrases and old saying related to snakes are often negative."

The Post goes on to interview Chinese people who say they "could find nothing positive to say in cards to family about the Year of the Snake... so just went with Happy Spring Festival." (What the Chinese New Year is called). Rude.

Then the Post said: "People who were born in the Year of the Snake should be extremely careful, Qi said. "According to feng shui theory, people who bear the same zodiac animal of the year tend to suffer more disaster and damage."

So now I've gathered that the Chinese really don't like the Year of the Snake in general, but also that whenever it's the year of your sign you have to be careful. Take that Ox's, Dogs, and Monkeys!

On a lighter note...people born in the Year of the Snake include John F. Kennedy, Pablo Picasso, and Audrey Hepburn. "People born in the Year of the Snake are quick-witted, clever, charming, sharp and funny. They have excellent taste, are a good friend and generous and loyal to others."

I'm choosing to end on that note versus the your doomed the rest of this year note. Even though I guess I did just end on that. I believe in a self-fulfilling prophecy, and I truly think 2013 is a great year for me -- it already has been! But at the same time... this stuff is a little freaky. What do you guys think?!

Monday, February 18, 2013

Spring Shopping

So, thanks to the lovely presidents of America, my fav is James Madison, I had today off work, which was beyond necessary after a hungover rough Sunday.

I was able to sleep in (... at least until 9:00), went to a workout class with my mom, made a big brunch, and then spent the day shopping.

I knew I wanted some spring outfits... but didn't know I would act like a crazy woman in every store I entered. I really don't feel too too guilty because I went to outlets and got amazing deals. I didn't pay full-price for anything. And had coupons. And hadn't been shopping in forever. And yes, justifying my purchases to myself does work.

Some of my purchases:

Da-da-da-damageeee

New spring jacket! (looks cuter on - below)

Excited to try it with denim.

color didn't translate on camera - it's bright orange

didn't have anything this color in my closet, looks cuter on!

 ready for st. patty's :)


cropped above ankles

lovin' this whole bright pants trend more than anything

put a bow on a shirt and i will buy it.


Silkaaay and perfect for any of my 193 cardis.

Only item on my must-have list was more white shirts

Hard to see, but a cut-out at the chest / neck

blouses on blouses on blouses

because i didn't own enough cardigans... 

Couldn't resist A. the stripes B. the colors

I've been looking for khakis forever... finally found at Banana.


 new light-wash skinny jeans from J. Crew... obsessed

gray and black casual clothes... my weakness

Yea... this happened.

Got this dress for 30$ (Orig 100). Turned it in to have hemmed above the knee

I also got a bright orange pair of pants from Banana, but turned them in to get hemmed. So, I'd say I was pretty successful! How was your Presidents day?!

Wednesday, February 13, 2013

The Irony of New Year's Resolutions

So... one of my new year's resolutions was to post in this blog more, yet I haven't posted a single one in 2013! WTF, is that the epitome of new year's resolutions or what!? Gah I hate when I prove stereotypes to be so completely right.

I usually don't make a legit list of resolutions, but I definitely think about it and come up with some in my head around the end of December and early January.

This year, from what I recall, I thought mostly about these:

  • The usual: work out more, eat better
  • Post in the blog more
  • Be better at staying in touch with friends 
  • Be less grumpy in the morning (hah)
  • Think outside the box & be more innovative at work
  • Plan more trips / adventures with friends
  • Meet and be more open with guys (L.O.L.)

Now that I've written them down maybe they will happen!? That's what they always tell you in school when you have a goal :P Let's just say I will never be happy-go-lucky before my first cup of coffee in the A.M... which isn't until I get in my car and head off to work, sorry parents.

If it makes my lack of posting more acceptable, I've had a crazy busy and amazing 2013 thus far! In the past, I have never ever ever ever liked January. My birthday, my sister's birthday, and Christmas are all in December so when January rolls around post-holiday blues doesn't begin to explain the mental breakdowns that happen daily. 

But this January was jam-packed with exciting stuff and work was crazy-busy, planning for a conference, so it flew by. 

The first weekend I helped a friend move into her apt in DC and we had a low-key weekend, involving a Top 100 Countdown of the best songs from the 2000s, pure joy. Your love's got me lookin' so crazy right now. The next weekend a bunch of friends came to DC to go out to celebrate her first week of work. It was pure chaos, my friends are crazy and I love it. The next weekend I went to NYC to visit another friend over MLK weekend. It was amazing. It deserves a post of it's own, to come. The next weekend I went to a work conference in California for the week; that deserves it's own post too. Then I finished out January with dogsitting, where my friends kept me company and we day-drank, cooked delicious things, and took great care of my dog, of course. 

SO the lesson here kids, is that January actually isn't that miserable. In fact, I'll go as far as saying this first January as a post grad human might be the best I've ever had. You da best I ever had, best I ever had.

AND it's the Chinese New Year and is officially the year of the snake...MY YEAR! Be afraid people... big things are happening this year. :) Oh and I chopped 12 inches off my hair. Maybe January did get to me after all...#mentalbreakdown

Pictures and more posts to come, I promise!

Saturday, December 29, 2012

Christmas Calories Do Count

Ah.... like always Christmas came and went way too fast! But it was a good one. My family usually goes somewhere for Christmas, Key West, Hawaii, a cruise... but this year we stayed in good ole suburban Virginia, and I loved it! Although my dad is planning on Hawaii for next Christmas and I don't hate that at all. 

This was my first post grad Christmas and it's going over really well. Don't get me wrong, I am super jealous of my brother who is all but hibernating during his month-long break, but at the same time, I am a person who thrives best when on a routine. So, it was awesome having Christmas Eve and Day off, but it's been nice to get up and do my normal work routine (from home- yes, amazing - and only half a day) which gets me back in some type of routine.

Yesterday I met up with my Little sister from my sorority (who is on break and lives in Northern Va) and we went shopping. The shopping was great, I got 70$ Gap jeans for 25$... a dolla makes me holla! And Anne Taylor was 50% off everything *deadly*. However, shopping was a bit of a rude awakening at the same time. The fitting rooms showed me that Christmas Calories do, indeed, count.

Our family's saying during the past couple of weeks has been "Christmas calories don't count hehehehe." Welp, that is beyond false. I have been so bad the whole month of December. Starting the night before my birthday (Dec. 6) I jokingly told my mom "I give up being healthy the month of December" which was a dumb thing to say because.. I did just that.

I've worked out a good amount but 45 minutes of running and lifting weights can only hold so much ground against 2 slices of pecan pie, peppermint bark, sweet potato casserole, mashed potatoes and gravy, chips and dip, cookies... I think you get the point.

Excited to essentially detox and be healthy in January! And the rest of the year!

Out in Arlington weekend before Christmas

The biggest mistletoe there ever was

very patriotic tree in my office building... gotta love DC!
  
started snowing on our Christmas Eve walk

Moxie loving the snow

brother-in-law, brother, me, and sister on christmas!

My sister and favorite puppy before presents 

Michael Kors camera case from the brother


Fav Christmas present, Tory Burch ballet flats!

Thank you Santa.

So regal

Casual Christmas tree ornament circa pre-school


Mark my words... I will have a King Charles at some point in my 20s!

Christmas dinner, all of my favorites!

my number 1 weakness

my number 2 weakness

snowy day after Christmas!

thoroughly enjoy working from home


Monday, December 17, 2012

Birthday Fun

December is craziness so this is a delayed post! My birthday was December 7th (a day which will live an infamy). I wasn't crazy about turning *gulp* 23 but now that's it's come and gone, it really doesn't seem like that big of a deal. I think it's safe to say I still have a good amount of youth left in me. ;) I'm also somehow convinced 40 looks like Jennifer Aniston... so that might be a rude awakening.

For my birthday a bunch of friends were able to come to DC to go out and celebrate. It's fun having your birthday on a Friday! We all started at my sister's house and went from there. It was so nice to see all my friends from relatively different friend groups all come together! And I got such cute and great presents. Let's just say my friends know I love earrings! And I got an oreo ice-cream cake. Yea.

From my parents I got a Michael Kors tote and wallet. That wasn't the original birthday plan but I went shopping with my mom on Black Friday and simply couldn't resist, so they became my birthday present, and it was more than worth it, I'm mildly obsessed. (I stare at my tote sometimes at work...)

I went out to dinner with my mom the Eve before my birthday, went out with my friends for my birthday, spent the rest of the weekend with my sister and brother-in-law who kept treating me to birthday-girl everythings, and then went out to dinner with my whole family the Monday afterward my birthday weekend. It was never-ending and I loved it! And now Christmas is around the corner so there's no time to be disappointed it's over. :)

Bonefish Grill for my birthday eve dinner... Chilean Sea Bass was to die 

Key Lime Pie because birthday calories don't count!

Came downstairs to these, love my mom!


Some goodies from my mom! She da bomb.com


l'occitane is amazing

beautiful anthropololgie earrings

love love love

prime work earrings

black and gold is my signature color combo ;)

south moon necklace, already wore out and got so many compliments!

cutest penguin!

my fragrance <3

in love with this sweater

workout clothes, my absolute fav!

friends know me too well #ilovesocks


All the girls for my birthday!

continued birthday weekend activities with my sister


this is an image I like to see 

obsessed.

weeee

photo shoot... I have a problem

crabtree and evelyn lotion kit and baggie, perfect for work!


my oreo ice cream cake!

I made a great wish;)

roomates from college! <3

out in Arlington

my best friend couldn't make it, but we went out the next weekend!


last but certainly not least, got this as well! two things i love most in this world - coffee and vanilla.

Safe to say my friends and family are too good to me! I had a great birthday!